Are you aware of the headlines in the newspapers. Do you find it fascinating because of the gossip and the excitement. Famous teenagers drug addicts , some of them so thin ,but no one see that there is something wrong with that picture, no one see the cry for help behind the money or the nasty attitudes , they just see people that is looking for publicity. Marriages in Hollywood nothing , you can marry today divorce in minutes, it was for fun or it was a sudden moment of madness.
No one realize that our morals are flushed down the toilets , because famous people are doing it, it must be the in thing besides I am a nobody so who am I to pass judgement. That is the biggest mistake that we make in life. Marriages used to be sacred between a wife and her husband who made a commitment infront of God and to one another. Now however there is nothing wrong , with keeping someone on the side and stay married.What is happening to all the things that was sacred to us. When you get pregnant it is easy for some people , either addoption or abortion , why would we kill another human being , that is helpless who had no choice in the matter when conceived, there are so many women who would give anything to have a baby like that, hold them love them.
Women used to be treated with respect now, they are being treated as tramps .Why we ask? . Where do men get ideas like that, oh yes it is in the magazines, the breast of women hanging out, it almost touches the floor. The clothing only enough material to cover the most important areas , and let''s not forget the newest trend , no more wearing panties at all. That is part of the problem ,because now women are labeled easy and they can get rape ,worser even babies , in South-Africa. Why don''t we as women speak out and say enough is enough, we are not all the same.
Let''s not forget the silent cries of those who told that when they are abused molested, by friends ,family members even parents ,what is happening the world is becoming one sick place to live in.Why are we so busy that we can not notice things like that do something about it. But no it is not our problem, we have our own so let''s look the other way, they can solve the problems.
Television, sex...sex...sex need I say more , where are the shows with morals, who helped the normal guy like me on the street, make me believe that anything is possible. The shows that made you laugh , when you need it , give you inspiration ,where characters face the problems that you have, but find a way of solving it, and you think hey that was me. Now instead people are portrayed as oversex animals , with bush manners, give each other the eye and have sex, hey they teach us to forget about illnesses such as Aids or any diseases that can be transmitted trough sex.
Morals are we so blinded by everything that glitters and includes a lot of money, that even a monkey look beautiful when we know , that it is ugly as hell. Some of us still care , but the majority does not, do you see a future because I don''t . I can only see a future where everything is wrong becames right and you know what, when you do not agree you will be the odd one out, and be stoned for it.
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Wednesday, September 3, 2008
INTELLIGENCE AND WISDOM ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS
INTELLIGENCE IS A WONDERFUL QUALITY TO HAVE. HOWEVER, IF I HAD TO CHOOSE BETWEEN INTELLIGENCE & WISDOM, I’D SAY THAT WISDOM IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN INTELLIGENCE IN OUR LIFE JOURNEY OF CREATING JOY AND ABUNDANCE. THERE ARE MANY HIGHLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE WHO FAIL TO USE THEIR INTELLIGENCE TO THEIR BEST ADVANTAGE. DO YOU KNOW THAT THERE ARE ALSO MANY EXTREMELY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE WHO LIVE VERY UNHAPPY LIVES???
WISDOM IS A QUALITY THAT YOU CANNOT ACCURATELY MEASURE. IT’S INVISIBLE. IT INCLUDES MANY ASPECTS OF LIFE SUCH AS PERSPECTIVE, SPONTANEITY, CREATIVITY, AND SOCIAL SKILLS. WISDOM IS YOUR SENSE OF KNOWING, AN INTUITIVE FEELING. WISDOM IS SEEING SOMETHING IN A NONHABITUAL MANNER. IT’S SEEING AN OLD PROBLEM IN A TOTALLY NEW, FRESH WAY. WISDOM HELPS US DISCOVER AND TRUST OURSELVES MORE. IT ALSO HELPS US TO FREE OURSELVES FROM OUR FIXED AND HABITUAL PATTERNS OF THINKING AND PROBLEM SOLVING.
IN A NUTSHELL, WISDOM IS THE ABILITY TO SEE AN ANSWER WITHOUT HAVING TO THINK OF AN ANSWER. WISDOM DOES EXIST OUTSIDE OF OUR THINKING MIND. WISDOM HELPS US SEE THINGS MORE CKEARLY THAN OUR THINKING MIND AND UNLIKE THE THINKING MIND, WISDOM CONTAINS NO WORRY.
HERE’S A STORY THAT DEMONSTRATES WISDOM. IT IS ABOUT A GIANT TRUCK THAT GETS STUCK UNDER AN OVERPASS. THE TRUCK WAS TOO TALL AND TOO BIG FOR THE AVAILABLE CLEARANCE. THE POLICE THEN CALLED OUT THE BEST, THE BRIGHTEST AND THE MOST EXPENSIE ENGINEERS IN THE CITY TO TRY TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO SHOULD BE DONE. THEY DISCUSS THE ISSUE AMONG THEMSELVES. THEY RACKED THEIR BRAINS FOR HOURS. BUT STILL THEY SIMPLY COULDN’T FIGURE OUT HOW TO REMOVE THAT GIANT TRUCK WITHOUT DAMAGING THE FREEWAY ABOVE. IT ALL SEEMED SO COMPLICATED. THEN A SMALL BOY, ABOUT SEVEN YEARS OLD, WALKED UP TO THE POLICEMEN AND TUGGED ON ONE OF THEIR PANTS LEGS. EXCUSE ME SIR, THE LITTLE BOY SAID IN A RESPECTFUL TONE. WHY DON’T YOU JUST LET THE AIR OF THE TIRES??? OUT OF THE MOUTH OF A 7 YEARS OLD BOY, THE PROBLEM WAS SOLVED.
THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE MADE THE MOST MONEY, OR WHO HAVE BEEN THE MOST SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR CAREERS, ARE ESSENTIALLY NOT ALWAYS THE MOST INTELLIGENT OR THE MOST HIGHLY EDUCATED. THERE ARE PLENTY OF HARVARD GRADUATES WHO HAVE A VERY DIFFICULT TIME MAKING SIGNIFICANT MONEY, DESPITE THEIR INCREDIBLE EDUCATION. USUALLY THE PEOPLE WHO MAKE THE MOST MONEY AND WHO HAVE THE MOST FUN MAKING ALL THE MONEY ARE HIGHLY CREATIVE, HIGHLY MOTIVATED, HAVE GREAT INTUITION, SOLID GUT REACTIOINS AND INSTINCT AND THE ABILITY TO SPOT OPPORTUNITIES. ALL THESE QUALITIES STEM NOT SO MUCH FROM INTELLIGENCE BUT FROM WISDOM. THIS IS NOT AN ARGUMENT AGAINST FORMAL EDUCTION, OR AGAINST STANDARD INTELLIGENCE. YET IT’S IMPORTANT TO KNOW THAT WE DON’T NEED TO USE ANY LACK OF FORMAL EDUCATION AS SMMUNITION AGAINST OURSELVES. EDUCATION IS IMPORTANT AND HELPFUL. BUT NEVER LET ANYONE CONVINCE YOU THAT IF YOU AREN’T FORMALLY EDUCATED, THAT YOU ARE DOOMED TO BE A FAILURE – BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT.
ONE OF THE BEST WAY TO ACCESS OUR OWN WISDOM IS TO SIMPLY BELIEVE THAT IS DOES EXIST AND TO TOTALLY TRUST IN IT. ALWAYS KEEP A CLEAR KNOWING THAT A DEEPER, MORE INTELLIGENT TYPE OF THINKING – OUR WISDOM – IS ALWAYS AVAILABLE.
WISDOM IS A QUALITY THAT YOU CANNOT ACCURATELY MEASURE. IT’S INVISIBLE. IT INCLUDES MANY ASPECTS OF LIFE SUCH AS PERSPECTIVE, SPONTANEITY, CREATIVITY, AND SOCIAL SKILLS. WISDOM IS YOUR SENSE OF KNOWING, AN INTUITIVE FEELING. WISDOM IS SEEING SOMETHING IN A NONHABITUAL MANNER. IT’S SEEING AN OLD PROBLEM IN A TOTALLY NEW, FRESH WAY. WISDOM HELPS US DISCOVER AND TRUST OURSELVES MORE. IT ALSO HELPS US TO FREE OURSELVES FROM OUR FIXED AND HABITUAL PATTERNS OF THINKING AND PROBLEM SOLVING.
IN A NUTSHELL, WISDOM IS THE ABILITY TO SEE AN ANSWER WITHOUT HAVING TO THINK OF AN ANSWER. WISDOM DOES EXIST OUTSIDE OF OUR THINKING MIND. WISDOM HELPS US SEE THINGS MORE CKEARLY THAN OUR THINKING MIND AND UNLIKE THE THINKING MIND, WISDOM CONTAINS NO WORRY.
HERE’S A STORY THAT DEMONSTRATES WISDOM. IT IS ABOUT A GIANT TRUCK THAT GETS STUCK UNDER AN OVERPASS. THE TRUCK WAS TOO TALL AND TOO BIG FOR THE AVAILABLE CLEARANCE. THE POLICE THEN CALLED OUT THE BEST, THE BRIGHTEST AND THE MOST EXPENSIE ENGINEERS IN THE CITY TO TRY TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TO SHOULD BE DONE. THEY DISCUSS THE ISSUE AMONG THEMSELVES. THEY RACKED THEIR BRAINS FOR HOURS. BUT STILL THEY SIMPLY COULDN’T FIGURE OUT HOW TO REMOVE THAT GIANT TRUCK WITHOUT DAMAGING THE FREEWAY ABOVE. IT ALL SEEMED SO COMPLICATED. THEN A SMALL BOY, ABOUT SEVEN YEARS OLD, WALKED UP TO THE POLICEMEN AND TUGGED ON ONE OF THEIR PANTS LEGS. EXCUSE ME SIR, THE LITTLE BOY SAID IN A RESPECTFUL TONE. WHY DON’T YOU JUST LET THE AIR OF THE TIRES??? OUT OF THE MOUTH OF A 7 YEARS OLD BOY, THE PROBLEM WAS SOLVED.
THE PEOPLE WHO HAVE MADE THE MOST MONEY, OR WHO HAVE BEEN THE MOST SUCCESSFUL IN THEIR CAREERS, ARE ESSENTIALLY NOT ALWAYS THE MOST INTELLIGENT OR THE MOST HIGHLY EDUCATED. THERE ARE PLENTY OF HARVARD GRADUATES WHO HAVE A VERY DIFFICULT TIME MAKING SIGNIFICANT MONEY, DESPITE THEIR INCREDIBLE EDUCATION. USUALLY THE PEOPLE WHO MAKE THE MOST MONEY AND WHO HAVE THE MOST FUN MAKING ALL THE MONEY ARE HIGHLY CREATIVE, HIGHLY MOTIVATED, HAVE GREAT INTUITION, SOLID GUT REACTIOINS AND INSTINCT AND THE ABILITY TO SPOT OPPORTUNITIES. ALL THESE QUALITIES STEM NOT SO MUCH FROM INTELLIGENCE BUT FROM WISDOM. THIS IS NOT AN ARGUMENT AGAINST FORMAL EDUCTION, OR AGAINST STANDARD INTELLIGENCE. YET IT’S IMPORTANT TO KNOW THAT WE DON’T NEED TO USE ANY LACK OF FORMAL EDUCATION AS SMMUNITION AGAINST OURSELVES. EDUCATION IS IMPORTANT AND HELPFUL. BUT NEVER LET ANYONE CONVINCE YOU THAT IF YOU AREN’T FORMALLY EDUCATED, THAT YOU ARE DOOMED TO BE A FAILURE – BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT.
ONE OF THE BEST WAY TO ACCESS OUR OWN WISDOM IS TO SIMPLY BELIEVE THAT IS DOES EXIST AND TO TOTALLY TRUST IN IT. ALWAYS KEEP A CLEAR KNOWING THAT A DEEPER, MORE INTELLIGENT TYPE OF THINKING – OUR WISDOM – IS ALWAYS AVAILABLE.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
5 secrets for success
The five major philosophies that I've been following throughout my life are as follows.These theories according to me are a must to be successful (THE MOST SUCCESSFUL) in life. Of course these are not the lines that I've quoted, I'm not that big of a philosopher yet. They're from different places said by some unknown but valuable gems as philosophers.
Well, they're...................
(1) IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO START AGAIN
(2) WELL BEGUN IS HALF DONE
(3) EVEN A 1000 MILE'S RACE BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP
(4) RACES ARE WON IN THE LAST FEW STEPS
(5) IF YOU "BELIEVE" IT "THEN", YOU CAN DO IT
These are the most inspiring and the most motivating lines I've ever known.And, I've always been very sure for one thing...."Whatever you can think of---YOU can DO that", and this "whatever" includes anything one can think of.
Suppose you have a 100% confidence that you can do whatever you taken up to or thought of, then definitely you can achieve whatever you've aimed for. Being very specific here I want to say that if howsoever you have even a trace of the "NOT GONNA WORK" type of thought anywhwre in your mind then my dear!!! You've lost it like a common man does.
But......if you happen to manage not to think of the negative part SOMEHOW, then, no one, not even GOD will dare to stop you STEP forward the step you've started to take. As an instance, if I can think that I'll pass in a subject in an exam.....and that thought is 100% strong, then, there's 0% chance for me to fail.
This is because whatever a human being is not being able to think of, CANNOT BE DONE.
This means that if a person somehow manages to think that a TIME MACHINE is possible, and if he thinks of it as 100% possible and nowhere in his mind comes (not even .001%) that "it maynot be....", then definitely this means............................
"THE TIME MACHINE IS COMING SOON"
Note: And that 100% confidence in anyone is exactly the perfect and should not be misunderstood as OVERCONFIDENCE
Well, they're...................
(1) IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO START AGAIN
(2) WELL BEGUN IS HALF DONE
(3) EVEN A 1000 MILE'S RACE BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP
(4) RACES ARE WON IN THE LAST FEW STEPS
(5) IF YOU "BELIEVE" IT "THEN", YOU CAN DO IT
These are the most inspiring and the most motivating lines I've ever known.And, I've always been very sure for one thing...."Whatever you can think of---YOU can DO that", and this "whatever" includes anything one can think of.
Suppose you have a 100% confidence that you can do whatever you taken up to or thought of, then definitely you can achieve whatever you've aimed for. Being very specific here I want to say that if howsoever you have even a trace of the "NOT GONNA WORK" type of thought anywhwre in your mind then my dear!!! You've lost it like a common man does.
But......if you happen to manage not to think of the negative part SOMEHOW, then, no one, not even GOD will dare to stop you STEP forward the step you've started to take. As an instance, if I can think that I'll pass in a subject in an exam.....and that thought is 100% strong, then, there's 0% chance for me to fail.
This is because whatever a human being is not being able to think of, CANNOT BE DONE.
This means that if a person somehow manages to think that a TIME MACHINE is possible, and if he thinks of it as 100% possible and nowhere in his mind comes (not even .001%) that "it maynot be....", then definitely this means............................
"THE TIME MACHINE IS COMING SOON"
Note: And that 100% confidence in anyone is exactly the perfect and should not be misunderstood as OVERCONFIDENCE
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
An Expression to Love
We are moving around different spheres related to our capabilities.But have we ever imagined the definition of love?what is love?Why people do love actually?What they do when they are in love?I got some answers experineces through my life.I got hurt when poor peoples are in trouble from childhood.It means i have feelings for them & that is love.But the most difficult love is for opposite sex.If you are true to your love then you must endure pain.Love to opposite sex is nothing but a strong feelings that can't be controlled & full of huge emotions.We need a extremely private one who can share our feelings and who can take care us and so we make love.When we are in love we share feelings,do sex with emotions,we take care each other.Now the thing I wanna tell that I have a one too whom I love tremendously,whom I care extremely.But what I get from her?I get nothing if i don't give anything.If I give 90% she give 10%.If i give 0% she also giv 0% but still she loves me?I am confused.is this possilble?can any one love other without showing 1st response from her end?I am searching & searching but finding no answers?What is the base of a relation,is this time or behavior,if both then which one is storng?I have experienced it too but still finding no answer.I am getting everything from my lover,her body,her time,her every thing but always I have to knock for those,is that love?Have I got her mind actually?What should one do when he feels that he always take 10 steps for his love and on the contrary if he feels that his lover does not feel it or disagree to take 1st step always or his lover always compromises not loves actually?
The total summary is love is not so simple as we think. It is nothing but a complex one. If you feel natural love and be honest then you must endure pain.This is what I experienced and still experiencing.
The total summary is love is not so simple as we think. It is nothing but a complex one. If you feel natural love and be honest then you must endure pain.This is what I experienced and still experiencing.
Thursday, August 21, 2008
What is Yoga?
Yoga is an age old discipline which has become very relevant in the modern world. Before we dump it as old fashioned or claim it to be of the spiritual world, fit for only rishis and maharshis, we have to ask ourselves the question What is yoga?
Yoga is not simple physical exercise and one does not have to sweat it out like jogging or push ups. We are going away from this world of rush and hurry when we are on the path of yoga. Yoga brings us back the peace that we have lost in the rat race. It gives us the mental peace that no other practice can give.
We are going after healthy foods, relaxation centres and religious prayers in the hope that they will give us a little peace. Yoga works both externally as well as internally. The exercises of Yoga, when done slowly and gently makes one aware of the 'prana' that flows through us. It is our life-giver, the breath that sustains us.
By controlling this vital breath man can control his mind,his emotions and be free from any worry that beset him. Once we have enjoyed the real fruits of yoga, then nothing in the world can stop us from embracing it forever. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yoga
Yoga is not simple physical exercise and one does not have to sweat it out like jogging or push ups. We are going away from this world of rush and hurry when we are on the path of yoga. Yoga brings us back the peace that we have lost in the rat race. It gives us the mental peace that no other practice can give.
We are going after healthy foods, relaxation centres and religious prayers in the hope that they will give us a little peace. Yoga works both externally as well as internally. The exercises of Yoga, when done slowly and gently makes one aware of the 'prana' that flows through us. It is our life-giver, the breath that sustains us.
By controlling this vital breath man can control his mind,his emotions and be free from any worry that beset him. Once we have enjoyed the real fruits of yoga, then nothing in the world can stop us from embracing it forever. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yoga
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Meaning of success
First of all i would say success has different meaning for different people. Every human person has his own definition of success. For some person success means acquiring all the physical luxury of life. For some success means leaving all the physical luxury for the spiritual gain. For some, success means reaching the top post of a multinational & for some it may be helping the most competent man to reach the top post of the same organization. For some success means, living life never compromising on the values & beliefs which they believe in & for some it means breaking all the values & belief for getting whatever they want. List goes on. As far as I am concerned success is not about winning or loosing. It''s also not about getting anything or I would put it more appropriately acquiring anything because i know one hard fact of the law of nature, what is today will not be tomorrow. So for me dear friend success means a temporary phase of ecstasy which regularly comes in short intervals in small phases. Like when i write something & somebody likes it, it’s a success for me. I feel successful when i give some advice to my friend & they get benefit out of it. I feel successful when I find everybody around me accepting injustice for the fear of repercussion & I garner enough courage to resist it. I think success can never be a permanent phase, for everybody it comes in different forms in different times. I have seen lot of my friends cribbing about not very successful in life & I try to explain them DO NOT COUNT SUCCESS AS ONE BIG PERMANENT HAPPENING, COUNT YOUR MOMENTS WHEN YOU WERE HAPPY, WHEN YOU FEEL ELATED, WHEN YOUR HEART WAS FILLED WITH JOY, WHEN YOU FEEL VERY PROUD OF YOUR ACHIEVMENTS HOWEVER LITTLE THEY WERE.The moments of success would be in thousands & feeling of failure will be very few. So with these findings are we all not successful. I think we all are.
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Science and Ethics
After the onset of the Modern Age, once modern science began to set in, it did not take long before humanity began to wonder about the ethical responsibilities of scientists towards their discoveries and their derived applications. Many researchers consider science as completely neutral; therefore, scientists cannot be responsible nor should they bear any liability for the technology they create and much less for its application.
On the other hand, some feel scientists are responsible not only as such but also as a segment of the society in which they carry out their work.
Modern science (techno-science) receives constant praise for the benefits it continually provides, whereas neither eventual failures nor harmful applications ever appear to derive from scientific work.
No human activity, not even science, is exempt from ethical responsibilities. Scientists therefore are accountable for each decision they make, more so if freedom exists to select from several options. They should be liable for both the beneficial as well as the harmful consequences.
On the other hand, some feel scientists are responsible not only as such but also as a segment of the society in which they carry out their work.
Modern science (techno-science) receives constant praise for the benefits it continually provides, whereas neither eventual failures nor harmful applications ever appear to derive from scientific work.
No human activity, not even science, is exempt from ethical responsibilities. Scientists therefore are accountable for each decision they make, more so if freedom exists to select from several options. They should be liable for both the beneficial as well as the harmful consequences.
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